A few years ago in November, a dear friend of mine sent me a list of 100 things she was grateful for and asked me if I might want to make a list for myself. 100 is a lot. It took me a while. But I did it. I don’t remember what made the list but I remember the process of thinking specifically of what incredible gifts I enjoyed. So instead of just family I could say:
1. My sister, Rhonda.
2. My amazing, sweet Mom who is an incredible cook.
3. My Dad who was such a great playmate to me growing up and still is.
Every November I recall that playful and thought-provoking activity. So a few weeks ago our clergy team sat down for our monthly lunch and I asked them to name ten specific things they were grateful for at that moment. It turned into one of the most tender and encouraging conversations we have shared as a team. I wonder what is on your list of ten items? Or what if it stretched to 100? And do you find the gratitude multiplying as you take the time to share your list with loved ones around a table of bread and wine, turkey and dressing?
When Paul writes to the Christians in Corinth he asks them “What do you have that you did not receive?” What an incredible question. I’m a hard worker but I got that from watching my Mom and Dad. I earned two college degrees only because others – some who I never even met – made financial gifts to underwrite my studies. We enjoy basketball only because Naismith created it. My soul is lifted by gorgeous music every Sunday morning only because others volunteer their voices and instrumental talent. Awe and wonder fill me as the yellow leaves shimmer out my window because God created the seasons. I can’t think of anything precious I have that I didn’t receive.
In his book on Gratitude, Cornelius Plantinga recalls the Passover Seder. Around the table, the people of God recite 15 acts of God and after each, they say “Dayenu” which means “it would have been enough” For example,
“If (God) had brought us before Mount Sinai and had not given us the Torah—Dayenu, it would have been enough!”
Perhaps in making a list of the gifts that overflow in our lives we too shall discover that we have more than enough.
Grace and Peace,
Carla
