One day in Catholic school the dear old nun was teaching us about Joseph’s dream in which he is called to be Jesus’ earthly father (Matthew 1:18-24). Sister told us that Mary was a better example of discipleship than Joseph because Mary said “Yes!” almost immediately to God’s plan while Joseph required this visit from an angel.
In our home, the Nativity scene and Advent calendar were central to our preparation for Christmas. Even at a young age I knew Sister was comparing Matthew’s story about Joseph with the Annunciation in Luke (1:26-38). In my head, I was doing the math. Both Mary and Joseph were visited by angels. Both had other plans before God called them to be Jesus’ parents in the Holy Family. Both were surprised, to say the least, and expressed reservations. In the end, both embraced their new responsibilities in God’s plan. If it’s a tie, I supposed it still goes to Mary because she was the one who was pregnant.
I am proud of “Little Joey” that he didn’t raise his hand to debate this interpretation with that dear old nun.
We tend to glamorize Scripture stories in which there is a “call” from God. Yes, of course, it is an honor to be asked by God to do something. At the same time, everyone in these stories is human. Humans like to believe we are in control; we have plans and expectations. When God calls us in a different direction, it is not surprising that we balk initially. Then, if indeed we are faithful disciples, we re-arrange our plans. We are the first person to welcome a new classmate, co-worker, or neighbor. We visit a sick or elderly relative or friend. We raise grandchildren instead of relaxing in retirement. We are gracious to those who care for us when we are sick.
Joseph’s dream is one of my favorite Bible stories precisely because there is no big “Yes!” moment from Joseph. It is rarely depicted in masterpieces or lauded in seasonal hymns. Instead this story bids me to pray humbly, “Lord, when my plans are turned upside down – as they surely will be from time to time – help me to recognize those upheavals as opportunities to love those you have brought into my life. May I be faithful to my call as was Joseph who, when he awoke from sleep, ‘did as the angel of the Lord commanded him.’”
Joe Walker
